Children's Ministry


| Sunday Worship | Nursery Ministry | Sickness Policy | FISH | Choirs and Handbells |
| Wednesday Fellowship |Seasonal Activities | Participate in Children's Ministries | Things We Always Need |
| Guide for Parents and Friends | ABC's for Parents and Friends | Webpage Links |


2008 Easter Events for Children and Families at FUMC

Follow this link to the 2008 Easter Events for Children and Families at FUMC

 

Where do children learn about faith?  They can spend up to 35 hours per week in school. 10-15 hours per week watching television and 56 hours per week sleeping.  But how many hours do they spend learning about God’s unconditional love, Christ’s gift on the cross and the comforting presence of the Holy Spirit and the blessings of the family?

For more information or questions about our Ministry with Children, please contact Rev. Sarah Watkins Davis, (704) 864-4371 ext. 232 or swdavis@fumcgnc.org

 

Sunday School   Every Sunday 9:45a.m.  to 10:45 a.m.

Preschoolers in Room 102

Kindergarteners in Room 108

First Graders in Room 130

Second Graders in Room 128

Third Graders in Club3G (Room 131)

Fourth Graders in Room 132

Fifth Graders in Room 129

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Sunday Worship

Children of all ages are invited to join us for worship at 8:45 a.m. and 10:55 a.m. each Sunday Morning. 

A Nursery is provided for children through age 4.  School aged children are invited to participate with the Worshipping Congregation.

Worship packets are available at each entrance to the Sanctuary to aid your child’s worship experience each Sunday.  Kid friendly worship bulletins are also available which allow children to participate in the Worship Service.

All Kindergarteners participate in “Let’s Find Out About Worship” the first 8 weeks of the Fall Sunday School program which is designed to help them make the transition between nursery and “big church”.  All families are invited to participate in this program.

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Nursery Ministry

We seek to provide children with a safe and clean environment in which they can begin to develop their first impressions of God and the Christian Faith. 

     Crib and Crawlers Nursery in Room 103;

     Walkers & Talkers in Room 101;

     3 & 4 year old children are in Room 101 during the 8:45 a.m. Service and in Room 102 during the 10:55 a.m. Service.

Nursery Care during both services for infants and toddlers (through 4 years).  Our nurseries are staffed by both paid and volunteer caregivers.

Pagers are available to parents who leave their children in the nursery.  If you would like to use one of the pagers, please ask one of the caregivers.

Questions regarding the Nursery program can be directed to Cindy McFadden at gastonzoo@carolina.rr.com or Sarah Watkins Davis swdavis@fumcgnc.org.

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Sickness Policy

For the well-being of the children and caregivers serving in our nurseries, we ask that you keep your child at home if they are exhibiting any of the following symptoms or illnesses in the last 24 hour period:  Fever greater than 100.0 F, runny nose and cough that is not allergy related, diarrhea, pink eye, active chicken pox, measles or mumps or any questionable rashes.  If your child is being treated with antibiotics, they should be on the drug for at least 24 hours before coming to the nursery.

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FISH  (First In Serving Him)


Once-a-month program for children in 3rd-5th grades focusing on missions and discovering what a difference we can make in the world.  We typically meet the third  Sunday of each month during the School Year.

 

FISH Update:

Check out our bulletin board outside the Canteen!  We learned that by serving God we also serve our Family & Friends, Church Family, Community and World.  There are also five styles of service:  Prayer, Work, Time, Money, and Donations. 

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Choirs and Handbells


We have a wonderful music ministry at First United Methodist Church.  There are several choirs and handbell choirs for children of all ages to participate in.  Practices are on Wednesday afternoons before our weekly fellowship dinners.

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Wednesday Evening Fellowship


Kid's Cafe is a kid’s only area for children (K-5th grades) to come and eat kid friendly food.  Reservations are required.  The Café is staffed by youth volunteers.

Following dinner there is a time for devotion then children will be able to participate in a variety of activities; planned games, gym free for all's, seasonal preparations, mission & outreach just to name a few.  The program is led by various persons and staffed by youth workers. 

Childcare is also available for birth through 4 years during the program hour (6:30 p.m. to 7:30p.m.) in the Family Life Center Nurseries.

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Seasonal Activities

Vacation Bible School
Easter Egg Celebrations
Butterfly Breakfast on Easter Sunday
Stewardship Lessons
Created by God: Human Sexuality Weekend
Challenge: Drug Awareness Program
3rd Grade Bible Presentations
New Beginnings Celebration
Fall & Advent Festivals for Families
Summer Activities are planned for Preschool—5th graders!

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Ways YOU can participate in Children's Ministries at First


Pray for the children and leaders
Bring your children
Volunteer for the nursery
Volunteer to teach or assist in Sunday School classes
Volunteer to assist with Wednesday Evening Fellowship Programs
Support the children when they are collecting items for mission projects

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Things We Always Need


If you have any of these items lying around your home and would like to put them to good use, please send them our way!

Yarn
School Supply type items
Plastic Fruit Baskets
Film Canisters

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A Guide for Parents and Friends of Children who Come to Worship with Us

Children at Worship

Welcome to worship at First United Methodist Church!  We believe that the presence of children in the worshipping community is important and we welcome and accept children to be active members of the worshipping community.


We show our inclusion of children by:

  • Providing quality childcare for infants & toddlers through age 4 during worship (available during any or all portions of the service.)

  • Having a special time in the service for children which includes an appropriate message.

  • Making sure that pencils, worship activity bulletins, and Bible story books are available for younger children in worship.

The Preschool Child

Adults may wonder at the wisdom of including preschool children in worship, since they sometimes can be restless, distracting those around them and embarrassing their parents.


The preschool child comes to worship with:

  • A rather limited attention span,

  • Seemingly endless energy, and

  • A growing curiosity about everything

While it is true that these ingredients can combine to test a parent’s patience, there are benefits to exposing a preschooler to worship.  It develops a sense of importance and belonging as a part of the family and the church.

Here are some suggestions of things parents can do to make the preschooler’s experience, and their own, more relaxed and enjoyable:

  • Sit near the front where your child(ren) can have a clear  view of the chancel area.

  • It may also be helpful to sit near an aisle so that if needed you may move in and out of the service with ease.

  • Prepare your child(ren) for the different parts of the worship service, explaining special events ahead of time and answering questions immediately in a quiet answer.

  • Encourage the use of the children’s activity bulletin by drawing and coloring in them.  Instead of being a distraction, hand activity can help a child concentrate.

The Primary Child

The school age child brings some new abilities to worship:

  • A greater capacity for attentive listening

  • An increasing ability to read

  • The ability to organize and memorize information.

Parents and other worshippers can help the primary child toward greater participation in worship as these capacities develop by:

  • Help them memorize The Lord’s Prayer, Gloria Patri, Apostle’s Creed and Doxology.

  • Review the bulletin with your child(ren) to identify new or difficult words (take a bulletin home to look up words)

  • Number the order of evens in the bulletin so that they may be checked off as we move through the service

  • Using different colors mark the times we pray, the times we sing, the times we listen to music, and the times we listen to God’s Word.

  • Hold a card under the line as you sing a hymn to enhance your child’s(ren’s) ability to follow along.

  • Make use of the activity bulletin.

Worship and Learning

Worship is one of the primary ways people learn what it means to be a Christian.  Children learn worship by worshipping with the congregation Sunday after Sunday.  This helps them learn worship by:

  • Learning that they belong to Christ and are welcome in his church.

  • Coming to learn the Lord’s Prayer, the Doxology, and the Gloria Patri by heart.

  • Gaining rich, memorable experiences of Christian community from which they may draw later.

  • Being enriched by the beauty of music and art as our expressions of thankfulness to God for all that has been given to us.

  • Hearing Bible stories read and interpreted, many of which they recognize from Sunday School.

  • Beginning to see worship as a place where God speaks to them.

  • Discovering that they are valued as persons by God and by God’s people at Church.

  • Recognizing worship as a family activity.

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ABC’s for Parents and Friends of Children

Arrive in time to find a good place to sit.  Sitting near the front will provide younger children with a better view of the chancel.  Use the time before the prelude to look around and recognize friends, to read through and mark the bulletin, and to locate hymns and responses.

Bring a favorite stuffed animal or Bible story.  Make use of the worship activity packs located at the entrances to the sanctuary.  They include a child friendly bulletin, crayons, and other activities for busy hands.

Clue in children as to what will happen next in worship.  Children who can read will want to go over the printed prayers and readings and find the hymns in the Hymnal.   They like to be prepared.  They may want to color code and/or number the order of worship.

Discuss worship at home to answer any questions about worship experiences.  Also this will prepare children for any special experiences of worship – such as Baptism or the Lord's Supper.

Express your gladness at having children in worship.  Let your child(ren) lean against you, ask questions, have your attention.  Include children in conversations before and after worship.

Free yourself from having to worry about children’s behavior and receive their ministry to you.

God is present, so teach your child(ren) to be reverent and quiet in appreciation of prayer time.

Help parents and their child(ren) by treating children as part of your family and support their parents in their effort to teach and discipline their child(ren).

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Webpage Links 

For Parents, Teachers, Other Adults

www.rogerday.com

http://www.gbod.org/ministries/children/

http://www.talkingwithkids.org/

http://www.endhunger.org/

http://www.gbod.org/ministries/family/

http://www.momsminivan.com/

http://www.wnccumc.org/

http://www.kidsdomain.com/

For Kids:

http://www.upperroom.org/pockets/

http://www.americangirl.com/fun.html

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190 East Franklin Boulevard
Gastonia, NC 28053
Telephone (704) 864-4371
Fax (704) 864-2076
Email uptown@fumcgnc.org